With the passing of my youngest son I have lost more than one son! my other two children now will not talk or reply to my calls and I know that their hearts are so filled with hate and that they will now be teaching their kids how to treat their parents when their parents do something they are not in agreement with. I wish this was not so but i have seen more funerals tear up families and it is so sad that this happens. Only the grace of God can soften the hearts of those who are so hurt that they have closed all communication.